OVER the last couple of weeks, Uganda has talked a lot about the deaths of two celebrities, and the sensationalism around their passing.
My eyes were first drawn to the part of the caption that read, “Simon died at the weekend…” which caused me some mild anxiety for obvious reasons.
Then I imagined the acute anxiety of the people who are actually related to Simon, and changed perspective because of the reality they were facing.
I have said a prayer for Simon Ekongo, and hope his soul Rests In Peace, and that his family finds solace at this trying time.
The comment about Simon Ekongo that caught me was: “See how this story is going to end here. Not like (those ‘celebrities’ earlier alluded to)…”
I was angry at that realization because of how true it is, and reserved the newspaper story till later in the day so I could read it in private and grieve silently.
That grief is painful – even for me who didn’t know Simon Ekongo in life
Simon Ekongo was diagnosed with leukaemia (a malignant progressive disease in which the bone marrow and other blood-forming organs produce increased numbers of immature or abnormal leukocytes. These suppress the production of normal blood cells, leading to anemia and other symptoms.) and was referred from Soroti Regional Hospital to Mulago Hospital, which is under renovation and so takes patients to Kiruddu Hospital in Munyonyo.
He was taken to Kiruddu where, the story says, “…they tested the blood and confirmed that it was acute leukaemia…” so he was sent to the Uganda Cancer Institute (UCI) which is BACK at Mulago, in Kampala.
The meaning of the word “acute” in the English language should have made everybody involved a lot more sensitive to Simon Ekongo’s situation.
The public holiday in question, by the way, was Heroes Day.
The official theme of the day was announced as, “SELF SACRIFICE IS THE SINGULAR HEROIC PILLAR IN NATION BUILDING.”
Self-sacrifice – ‘the giving up of one’s own interests or wishes in order to help others or to advance a cause.’
As we pray for the soul of Simon Ekongo, who departed from the Uganda Cancer Institute, let’s hope that the people who should have done a better job with him and others like him adjust the way they ‘work’, because we need more Heroes and more Self-Sacrifice in this country. By Simon Kaheru
Don’t Be SELFISH!